Five Emotional Love Languages

LOVE doesn't make the world go round. LOVE is what makes the ride worthwhile.

According to pareng Chapman, homo sapiens express their love in different ways. He even divided it into 5 emotional languages. So, it's important for us to know what is our love language and so as our partner's  to avoid misunderstandings and dramas (nemen!expert lng?!?!). hahaha!

So here it is buntis! (kung makarhyme!hahaha) :)

Chapman's Five Emotional Love Languages:

1. Words of Affirmation

            This is when you say how nice your spouse looks, or how great the dinner tasted. These words will also build your mate's self image and confidence.

2. Quality Time
          Some spouses believe that being together, doing things together and focusing in on one another is the best way to show love. If this is your partner's love language, turn off the TV now and then and give one another some undivided attention.

3. Gifts
          It is universal in human cultures to give gifts. They don't have to be expensive to send a powerful message of love. Spouses who forget a birthday or anniversary or who never give gifts to someone who truly enjoys gift giving will find themselves with a spouse who feels neglected and unloved.

4. Acts of Service
          Discovering how you can best do something for your spouse will require time and creativity. These acts of service like vacuuming, hanging a bird feeder, planting a garden, etc., need to be done with joy in order to be perceived as a gift of love.

5. Physical Touch
          Sometimes just stroking your spouse's back, holding hands, or a peck on the cheek will fulfill this need.

On a personal note, I am happy that mi amore can express his love in different ways - sa isip, sa salita at sa gawa. (naks!panatang makabyan lang?hahaha). Mi Amore is actually a man of few words. Pero kahit di siya ganun ka verbose eh he never fails to tell me how much he loves me. (blush!) He would always say THANK YOU for the very little things na ginagawa ko for him and would let me know gaano nya ito naappreciate. Sweet noh? ^_^ He would willingly give me a massage whenever he sees that I had a long and tiring day at work. (i miss this! :( He's willing to accpet all the "kantyaw" from his friends for not going with them just to spend time with me. He's not fond of surprises. He usually asks me what I want and buy it for me. I am happy and contented on how he shows his love for me. Hindi ito katulad ng mga napapanood ko sa teleserye, pero alam kong ito ay tunay at totoo (sing tamis ng wine,sing tatag ng sunshine.hahaha).

Mahal, thank you for always making me feel loved and special. Ang cute mo! hehehe. :)

IMISSYOU very mucho! :(

MAHAL KITA! :* :* :*

S U R P R I S E

"The best things in life come at the most UNEXPECTED moment."

Yesterday, something "kagimbal-gimbal" happened to me. I cannot even remember how it all happened. All I can remember now is the pain and shock that I've been through. (harte lungs!)

This is what I got from the pusakals that I feed every night. :(

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exhibit C

Napakasakit kuya eddie. matapos ko silang pakainin, bihisan at mahalin eh ganito pa ang iginanti nila sa akin. (hahaha) Parang gusto ko tuloy budburan ng ajinomoto ang pagkain nila. Pero nunca! (chos!) Hindi ko po iyon magagawa. Pinalaki po ako ng aking mga magulang na may takot...may takot sa mga hayop. (hahaha). Baka magalit ang dyosa ng mga pusa (na si catwoman,hahaha) at parusan ako.

Kidding aside, I was really depressed yesterday. 1st- it was my first time to be bitten by an animal. I was superduper OA afraid to die. Knows kong nakakamatay ang rabies. HALLERRRR?!?! ayaw ko kayang mamatay na naglalaway at walang goli. (hahaha) 2nd - i was BROKE. Wala akong kadatung datung. I'm pretty much aware that anti-rabies vaccination is quite expensive. 3rd- i'm ALONE. (harte ko lng!) I really felt alone yesterday. Yung tipong pasan ko ang daigdig. At dahil sa kadramahan kong ito, eh inaway ko si bf. Kaya mas lalo akong naging depressed. :'(

But yesterday, I also realized na some people really care. They already know kung sino sila. (hahaha). True indeed that NO MAN IS AN ISLAND. We need each other to survive. I'm still lucky because  despite of the unexpected misfortune, I'm surrounded with people who'll always be there to extend a helping hand. I'm just hoping and praying now, that nothing serious will happen due to this cat bite chenes. I need to be back on the 20th and 24th for my 3rd and 4th vaccination. :) So far, I only have rashes at my back which according from Mr. Google is the effect of rabipur. I know I'll be FINE. :)

So I guess it's really true that the best things in life come at the most UNEXPECTED moment. ^_^

P.S

To mi amore, sorry for the harsh remarks. I didn't mean it. Dala lng iyon ng takot, galit, at pag aalala na naramdaman ko kahapon. At siguro pagkamiss na rin sayo. :(

I'll make it up to you, I PROMISE. I LOVEYOU! :* <3<3<3

To the cat memeng who bit me, please don't DIE. (hahaha) You are under observation ming. And you don't have to worry, di kita lalasunin. (wink)

I thank YOW! (bow)

I'll never run out of reasons to be THANKFUL for having someone like YOW! <3 <3 <3

1. Thank you for staying even if you had every reason to leave.
2. Thank you for not getting tired of listening to all my rants. (alam ko pagod ka na pero thank you dahil di mo pinapakita. :)
3. Thank you for putting up with all my dramas and ka-artehan. (hartesta kc labidabs mo!hehehe)
4. Thank you for always reminding me to SAVE (para sa future). hehehe
5. Thank you for always praising me for being such a good cook (even if i'm not).
6. Thank you for teaching me how to control my temper and extend my patience.  (wag knang umangal.di na ako madali magalit at pasensyosa nko noh!)
7. Thank you for being a good listener (sa mga kwento kong walang kabuluhan at saysay at kadalasan ay parang pirated cd na paulit-ulit). hahaha
8. Thank you for letting me do things na (alam kong) ayaw mo pero dahil sa gusto ko eh hinahayaan mo ako (ex.wearing my "power" shorts atbp.)
9. Thank you for being jealous sometimes (hahaha!) Pinapahaba nito ang aking dry hair ng bongga. chos! It makes me feel that you don't want to lose me. (and i can't blame you for that! hahaha.biro lang.)
10. Thank you for doing all you can to be a better person.(kahit na your the best nman for me! )
11. Thank you for always painting a smile on my face and for laughing with me (sa ating mga kabaliwan at hanep na pick up lines!)
12. Thank you for always making me feel beautiful and sexy (naks!pero alam ko nmang totoo talaga ito.)hahaha.
13. You're not perfect mahal, neither do I but THANK YOU for filling my life with perfect moments in the past 4 years (and counting). I LOVE YOU! <3

D I S T R E S S E D

I EXREMELY hate being alone and bored because it gives me a lot of time to think of my problems...my worries...my fears...my frustrations. :'( I'm doomed!!!

Lord,
I can’t say it in words…
Can you please just listen
through my heart…..AMEN.

tell me who your FRIENDS are, and i will tell you who you are...

FRIENDS are like bras...close to your heart and there for support! :) kamusta nman ang comparison??? hahaha.

two of my bestest BRAS ever! hahaha

para kaming rebisco, magkaiba man ang flavor pero kaming 3 magugustuhan nyo! paaaaakkkk!

crazeeeee friends + crazeeeee times =  best momen ever! :)

GOOD friends... <3

THANK YOU madem evegel and mareng adang for the genuine friendship. :)

Sana next year....alam nyo na yun! hahaha :)